YOU Deserve a Friend

YOU Deserve a Friend

By Keziah

In having a wisdom with life in general, that first time you savor into a vanilla ice cream topped with Reese’s peanut butter and chocolate pretzels and salted caramel, the time when you got your lash extensions done, the time you went shopping for art supplies that you wished a friend was there to help you pick favorites and to be your art buddy because I like sharing in a whole lot of ways. Since I grow antsy and want to be a sharer of something, I mean everything, of my whole shenanigans I have grown accustomed to the thought of finding a close friend. Although I think that it is sometimes too far fetched.

I never had a friend, nay- a single CLOSE friend who can empathize with me and can understand and me as well to HER.  I want a friend who can tell me things I would not have known otherwise. Has knowledge of what’s good to eat in the city. LOL at some of my not so funny jokes without me thinking of, “does she really think the joke was funny?” I just want to seize the moment of laughter laugh at non-funny statements without giving meaning to it. Or say, “Should I say it?”

I need a friend just a single friend who I can take runs with. Like running errands. Go to a bookstore. Shop at a thrift store with. Window shopping at the mall. Get our makeup done at Sephora's. I can call her anytime and just leap a plan to go to a nail shop and then change where we’re going in an instant to go at a restaurant instead, without hesitating and not get angry and frustrated with each other but patient. Not taking it on with each other next time to who cancelled and change but laugh at it like there’s no tomorrow. Or really go to a nail shop just for example and not complaining about her manicure or pedicure or how the lady treated her because there is no perfect scenario and next time get another person to work on your mani/pedi. Just not mention how bad it is and seize the moment to have fun laugh about it. JUST GOOD VIBES!

I need a friend who I can sit down and reminisce of the past wholesome memories and say, “Remember the time when….?”  

How about you? Do you have a certain need for a friend that you really want to have? As you noticed I did not mention anything negative but try to ascertain and discover how good a friendship is on a positive note. The perks of being there when you need them the most starts out from how good and pleasant a friendship could be. And that is the foundation to keep it better in the years to come. Who knows you may be privileged to be her maid of honor, her confidant throughout those years and love for both never fades in a knit of a web that binds the two souls more than a friend but also a real sister.